A couple of months ago, Pew Research announced a finding that surprised me: 49% of Americans want preachers to speak about “political issues.” This was roughly the same percentage that do NOT want them to do so. I have not looked closely at the data, but I am willing to bet that people who go to church are more heavily represented in the first group. All this is to say that the majority of people in our parishes *want* their priests to speak clearly on contemporary moral issues. All this got me thinking – what else do people want from their priests? Thom Rainer shares the results of his research on this topic. While priests are not called to cater to the crowd, it is encouraging that they want the same thing from us that we want to offer. So what are we waiting for!? – Fr. Anthony Perkins
Ten Things Church Members Desire in a Pastor
by Thom Rainer at thomrainer.com (14 January 2013)
Many of my articles come from the perspective of pastors. That will not change in the future. I am an advocate of pastors and I desire God’s best for them. I have no plans to change my advocacy role.
As a change of pace, however, I recently asked a few hundred laypersons to write down what they desired of a pastor. Their responses were open-ended, and there was no limitation on the number of items they could list. Though my approach was not scientific, these laypersons did represent over sixty churches.
Here are their top ten responses in order of frequency. Since many of them gave one or more sentences as a response, I can provide a representative comment by each of the responses.
- Love of congregation. “If we know that our pastor loves us, everything else falls in place. If he doesn’t, nothing else matters.”
- Effective preaching. “I don’t have any expectation that my preacher be one of the best in the world, I just want to know that he has spent time in the Word each week to teach us effectively and consistently.”
- Strong character. “No pastor is perfect, but I do want a pastor whose character is above reproach on moral, family, and financial issues.”
- Good work ethic. “I don’t want either a workaholic pastor or a lazy pastor. Unfortunately, our last two pastors have been obviously lazy.”
- Casts a vision. “Our church has so much possibility; I want to hear what we will do to make a difference in our community and the world.”
- Demonstrates healthy leadership. “Most of the pastors in my church have demonstrated a good balance; they have been strong leaders but not dictators.”
- Joyous. “Our current pastor is a man of joy. His joy and enthusiasm are contagious. I love him for that!”
- Does not yield to critics. “I know that every pastor serving today has his critics. And I know it’s tough to deal with them. I just want these pastors to know that we supporters are in the majority. Please don’t let the minority critics dictate how you lead and serve.”
- Transparent. “Every pastor that I have had has been open and transparent about the church and the direction we are headed. It sure has made our church healthier.”
- Models evangelism. “Our pastor is passionate about sharing the gospel. His heart and attitude are contagious.”
What do you think about this list? What would you add from the perspective of either a pastor or a layperson?
Terry Hebert says
We the people or laity want someone to follow. If my priest tells me that I should confess, then I want to follow my priest who confesses to his spiritual father. If my priest tells me to read the Bible, then I want to follow my priest who reads the Bible according to the lectionary of the Church. If my priest tells me to pray the hours, then I want to follow my priest who prays the hours. If my priest tells me to love my neighbor, and especially my enemies, then I want to follow my priest who loves his neighbor and his enemies. A leader follows his own instructions; he takes his own advice; he avoids hypocrisy. A leader does not have one set of rules or standards or advice for others and another, lesser set for himself. A leader is NOT exempt from obedience, from trial, from temptation, from vulnerability, from growing in grace and knowledge. A leader leads his followers on the same journey he’s traveling. A leader models, exemplifies, typifies, and leads. A leader will make mistakes, and from his mistakes, the leader teaches us how to recover. If a leader sins, then he leads us into repentance. A leader makes enormous sacrifice to lead. A leader must know that his followers are watching. “Imitate me, as I imitate Christ!” We want to follow someone who is following someone who is following Christ.
Fr. Anthony Perkins says
Preach it, Terry!